Your parents about dating
When you get serious with someone Going on a few dates is no big deal and not necessarily something you need to call home about.
But when you start talking about cohabitation or buying a puppy together it's time to call mom and dad and dish.
Avoidant attachment yields two different separate behaviors—“fearful” and “dismissing.” have a negative self-image, but are also passive and dependent; they actually want intimacy but they are also desperately afraid of being hurt and distrust others.
The exact reasons why you're dating someone I think we're all guilty of dating someone for a shallow reason and then having it blow up in our face.
This is probably because unlike my brother and sister, I always remembered to call and check in, in high school my social life consisted of debate tournaments and practically nothing else, and beyond that I was always capable of talking myself out of anything remotely fun if I thought it might upset someone.
So even when I went through that crazy period of staying out until 3am and sleeping past noon, they never really questioned what I was doing or who I was with, trusting instead that I'd abide by their limited rules (no being brought home by the police, no needing to have an ambulance or the fire department called, and no getting involved in internet porn).
The answer has everything to do with attachment theory and unconscious mental models.
A body of psychological research reveals that our earliest relationships, especially with our mother, not only influence how we are able to connect to others as adults—in romantic and other contexts—but also create internalized scripts or working models of how relationships work.