How to beat dating games
The idea of this game is to blame you and get you to apologize for what he did wrong. He’ll pretend to be everything you want until he has you hooked. He’ll still be perfect in front of your friends and family. They might use it as a guilt trip or as part of the blame game.
It’s a great way to kill your self-esteem and keep you off guard. Call him out on his crap and force him to apologize. The idea is to make you fall for him and when you want to leave, your friends and family turn against you for wanting to leave such a perfect guy. If your friends and family are choosing him over you, it’s time to find better people in your life. We all have this tendency to go after the guy who doesn’t seem to care. The idea is to make you look like the bad one by subtly pushing all your buttons until you finally explode. He flirts with other women in front of you to show you he has other options. It’s his time and if he turns out to be a jerk later, you’re still going to dump him.
Keep in mind that someone leaving a date may go home, tell his friends about you, and look forward each day to the next time he gets to see you.
What to do instead: If your date asks if he can see you again, try saying this: “You are so sweet and thank you, but can I think about it?
To win, tell him if his ex was so much better, maybe he should go back to her.
” If you know you’re never going to want to see him again, try being brave and honest: “I’m not sure if we’re a good fit, but I did enjoy meeting you tonight.” 2.
Making Vague Weekend Plans You’ve probably heard a few different people you’ve dated say this: “Let’s do something next weekend.” If you’re like most people, you meet someone you like and then set out to make plans for a simple weekend activity.
While both sexes should just be upfront and honest, mind games happen and if you’re an unsuspecting woman, it’s time to learn to recognize when he’s just playing you so that you can win whatever game’s on the table.
After all, once you know what’s going on, it’s pretty easy to counter him and beat him at his own game.