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As a result, I think I've developed some ways to stop being such a nervous wreck before your first date.So, next time you're about to lose your mind over a first date with John from Tinder or Alex from Whatever Bar, read these tips and chill the f*ck out. And, let me tell you, a date is no signifier of an impending relationship. You could easily walk out of drinks or dinner or mini golf and never speak to the person ever again.
This summer, my friend told me a story about a time she left a date after ten minutes. But she calmly explained to me: “Why would I stick around for painful conversation with a guy who was kind of a prick? If you don't want to say yes to a second date, YOU DON'T HAVE TO SAY YES. Now that we've got your physical safety out of the way ... And, as I've mentioned earlier, you don't have to marry him.Don't always strive to be “the couple that knows everything about love,” constantly posting instas of themselves gazing adoringly into each other's eyes on the Brooklyn bridge.If your relationship is important to you, that's all that matters. You are about to be trapped with this virtual stranger with no option but to get to know each other.Oh, and then there's probably the worst outcome of all: He's just an eh-whatever-average guy who you have no desire to see again, aka a total and complete waste of your time. Luckily, I haven't ended up with any rapists or murderers.