Dating and send message
Some people think it’s cool to copy and paste an identical message to hundreds of other people, like bait in a lake full of carp. I’d like to say there’s no right or wrong way to message someone—everyone has something that works for them—but there is definitely a way.
“I didn’t want it to be a good strategy,” she said. In other depressing news for women, the study also showed that women’s desirability ranking drops from the age of 18 onwards, whereas for men, it peaks at 50.This will help spark an idea about where to take the message. I can totally get down waxing all philosophical like while watching Arrested Development and drinking mugs full of coffee. (I think it’s on Amazon Prime so who knows if I’ll ever see it).Bonus: You’ll find out if you truly want to message this person or if they’re just drawing you in with their physical appearance. Though the message is short, it creates a commonality and allows for a dialogue to easily start.It may also indicate a possibly hopeful movement in the social dynamics of dating: women are getting comfortable messaging first, and the system isn’t punishing them for it. Moreover, she said, “we only observe what people do, we don't know why they are doing it.Also, we only observe the earliest stage of dating among people who meet online.