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– Hans*I’ll do the hook-up thing for a while, get tired of it, get a girlfriend, get tired of being a relationship, and then do the hook-up thing again.– Mark*Friends With Benefits I think dating still exists to a degree in college, but it's intermingled with the hook-up culture.– Matt*I’m happy being single, but I also like the idea that there’s someone out there who likes you, thinks about you all the time, and wants to be with you.Guys don’t ever approach me and people say it’s because I’m intimidating but I literally look like I’m 12 years old so I don’t get it.But now that I have a boyfriend, all I want is to hook up with other people.– Anita*I came in with a girlfriend freshman year, which I ended up regretting.Had a couple of hook-ups, didn’t regret them at all but they weren’t anything special.Then I had a friend-with-benefits who I dated on and off.
–Chloe*I met this guy through a mutual friend and we started hooking up.
It satisfied both of our needs without the pressure of a relationship.
But soon, he got abusive, saying he wanted nothing to do with me sober and then asking to have drunken sex. I think that friends-with-benefits can work, but you have to treat each other like friends.
Every once in awhile we do something fun like cook together or go out together but we usually just hang out at each other’s apartments.
I definitely prefer it to hooking up because it brings more of a human element back to sex. – Kara*I prefer dating to hook-ups, myself having been in two serious relationships during college, one of which is still going post-graduation. You see all types of relationships, and it just depends on what works for the individual.